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Boyfriend doing some shady stuff- Help!!
Relationship Stress / by angelsxdd111
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 July 4th, 2020
...See more My boyfriend was talking to me last night about how he wants to go hangout with a friend alone (she is a female). I don't know who this friend is, he has mentioned her to me before but I have never met her or spoke to her and my boyfriend has never met this girl in person. I expressed how I feel uncomfortable about it and I asked him how he would feel if I asked him to go hangout with a guy alone that he doesn't know, but he said that it was 'different' because I am a female and guys can take advantage of me. I told him that it really isn't that different because either way it would make him uncomfortable. He started to get frustrated and said my argument doesnt make sense and him and this girl are 'only just friends'. He said that he used to want to go for this girl before we started dating too- which makes it even worse for me, and just the fact that he kept pushing it and trying to get me to agree with him. I insisted on meeting this girl first but he said it would make things awkward and he doesn't want his friends to feel uncomfortable or third wheel. So I also suggested if I become friends with her first and talk to her because I don't know this girl - but he then said "oh she doesn't really respond much so it's no use". This just makes me think something is up or he is hiding things from me. I am starting to feel lke my boyfriend is doing some shady stuff and is making it obvous to my eyes - and I don't know what to do.
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