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anonySail5248
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 September 27th, 2025
...See more Hi I’m new here, I’ve been having a rough time for awhile now. There is so much to say but I’ll try to sum it up in as short as possible.  I feel like im living this life with hardly any support other than my husband and 2 little kids. I hate to burden my friends because they all have busy families as well. Anyways my mother in law hates me and I don’t understand why is the biggest issue. We always got along great until I found out she was secretly calling my husband (her son) and telling him lies about me until he started believing her. Because why would she lie right, she didn’t have a reason.  Just really outlandish stuff like I’m trying to keep their grandson away from them, but they came over during nap time… or I’m a stay at home that never wants to work again, I’m just with my husband for the money (while I’m in the process of getting a job, I have 2 degrees),making fun of my appearance. Just literally anything they can think of to make me look bad. If we were a few minutes late for family dinner on Sundays (while having a newborn) she would say I’m not giving them a fair amount of time vs my family. Just out there stuff. I am no contact with her. i can’t even see my father in law who I adore. what makes it even more complicated is my mom is kind of the same way. I can’t even talk to her or ask her advice on anything without it turning on me that I’m the problem. One timei was crying while holding my newborn cause I needed support and he never slept, I could hear my mom making crying noises mocking me to my dad in the adjoining room. I just want my sons to have family so i try to Just block it out somewhat… we have had blow ups over things before I feel like why is this happening to me? I’m a nice person, have lots of friends, its just Starting to affect me like I’m the problem but ive not done anything and would be the first To admit if I was wrong. It’s so hard being a mom with no mother figure to help 😭
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