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anxiouslover13
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Confused and lonely
Relationship Stress / by anxiouslover13
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 September 9th, 2023
...See more My husband and I have been together for nearly 5 years. About a month ago, I woke up alone. He took his vehicle, loaded up some of his stuff, and when he finally contacted me at the end of the day I discovered he drove 700 miles away. At that time he said he didn't know what to do about us. The night before everything was great, we participated in adult activities together like normal and went to sleep with each other. He is now saying he wants a divorce, yet he says he still loves me. He claims the divorce has to happen for his mental health to get better, but he wants to try again with me once he improves himself. He's told me that he's been unhappy for the entirety of our relationship, and he doesn't want to stay married because he can't work on himself if I'm waiting for him. Yet he doesn't want me to move on after him. My heart is breaking because I never saw this coming and I don't know what to do. Hearing him say he wants a divorce hurts, but hearing him say that he still loves me hurts more because it makes me so confused.
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