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aquaChestnut3831
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PathStep 8 Compassion hearts15 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes7 Current upvotes7 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2022 Member sinceMarch 9, 2022
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Relationship Stress / by aquaChestnut3831
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 March 28th, 2022
...See more I was in a relationship for 10 years. Things were great until one day he says he needs space. Arguments after arguments of trying to make it work, he broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. He seemed to have moved on pretty fast. He keeps hanging out with girls, saying he’s living the bachelor life. But when he broke up with me he said he wasn't breaking up to look for something new. It’s been 10 years and it feels like none of this is affecting him. He has me blocked off of every social media even texting and only reaches out when he needs something. He even says that who knows what the future holds and we may end up together again. We’ve only hung out a few times since then trying to remain friends. I’m in so much pain and it just seems he’s living his life not caring about anything. Did he do this because he wants to experience being single? Why does he not care… I feel so broken I cry all the time.. it’s so hard to move on and be ok.. I don’t know what to do. How does 10 years not affect someone. Seeing him do whatever he wants and being single and trying to like hurt me with what he’s doing is really breaking me. And he tells me I’ve ran out of chances to fix things. Will I ever get another chance…
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Relationship Stress / by aquaChestnut3831
Last post
 September 13th, 2023
...See more I was in a relationship for 10 years. Things were great until one day he says he needs space. Arguments after arguments of trying to make it work, he broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. He seemed to have moved on pretty fast. He keeps hanging out with girls, saying he’s living the bachelor life. But when he broke up with me he said he was breaking up to look for something new. It’s been 10 years and it feels like none or this is affecting him. He has me blocked off of every social media even texting and only reaches out when he needs something. He even says that who knows what the future holds and we may end up together again. We’ve only hung out a few times since then trying to remain friends. I’m in so much pain and it just seems he’s living his life not caring about anything. Did he do this because he wants to experience being single? Why does he not care… I feel so broken I cry all the time.. it’s so hard to move on and be ok.. I don’t know what to do.
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