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Listener - Virtuoso 9

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Hi, I'm BEE!

I take a variety of topics - scroll through the list and see if you find anything that fits you.ย  I am one of the listeners who will talk about some subjects like BDSM, polyamory, open relationships, and so on.

I DO NOT TAKE: Alcohol/Drug Use, Borderline, Domestic Violence, Parenting, Perinatal, Recovery, Spirituality.
I will be up front and either refer you or end the conversation.

I will rarely schedule chats, but check with me and I might - I have limited time so I make no promises.

I no longer have any of my leadership roles and I am not going to take on any leadership roles.
Number of Ratings: 490
Number of Reviews: 161
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Jan 18, 2016
Last Active in last week
Gender Non-Binary
Progress Path Step 816
Cheers 203,282
People Helped 919
Chats 3,088
Group Support Chats 440
Listener Group Chats 308
Forum Posts 466
Forum Upvotes 673
Feedback & Reviews
Very nice and insightful
Best listener ever.
Really helpful loved talking with her was really supportive
The safest, most understanding bumblebee I've ever had the pleasure to talk to. ๐Ÿ
It was really helpful and I felt a real connection with the listener. It was great and would love to talk to him/her later.
Be is, hands down, one of the best listeners on this site. I've been having a really hard time lately and she was excellent at providing a warm, safe place to work through what's been bothering me. She's gentle, patient, and caring. A real class act.
A life saver. I am so blessed to have communicated with this person.
Nice person. Warming and caring.
Understanding and can help as much as possible
asthebeesays is a great person to talk to. It was great to speak to someone who understood me and was able to listen to what i had to say.
They were so helpful and made me feel like my feelings were valid. Has been such an amazing help!
Awesome Listeners
Bee is nice and amazing
very kind and patient.
Love love love how unjudgmental she is and how much she let me talk ๐Ÿ˜‡
Definitely listens and is willing to hear you out and take a new outlook out of their experience so they can help others
Great listener and helpful.
Omg!!! So helpful! Now I will have NO fear coming out!!! Thanks!!!
hears me out.. like the resones she gives me...
smart guy repsectable
Amazing Listener, actually gave me good solid advice and made me feel more sure of myself and my situation. 20/10 would recommend
An amazing listener, gave me great clarity on my issues, boosted my self esteem at least 3 fold, and overall a fantastic, kind person :)
Soo much support when chatting, right from the get-go, love asthebeesays
This listener really helped and gave amazing support and made me feel understood.
Very helpful. Listened to everything I said and offered suggestions to help
thank you for listening
Very helpful ! Wonderful person!!
Amazing feedback! Great listener
Very understanding and supportive :) Would recommend for sure
A good listener. Very kind!
great listener. really appreciated talking my things through with bee
amazing listener, she is really easy to talk to and helped me get through what I was going through
went quite well, was a good listener
Very helpful chat. Very talented listener.
They're amazing. Really knows what to say. Thank you, Bee.
Good conversation, advice
Wonderful listener and truly empathetic :)
Thanks for the time and asking just the right questions bee! You're amazing :)
So kind and helped me get through a rough situation
Very good and nice. Probably one of my favourite chats on this site.
Bee is a very good listener. I really feel like I am talking to someone that cares and hears what I am saying. They are willing to take their time to be here for me. Although they normally have a one hour chat when really needed they were willing to stay a bit longer and that meant more than words can say. They are Important and so very kind. Thank You for being here!
Very sweet and amazing.
Great listener. Helped me rationalize and put things into perspective!
Good listening skills
Bee was helpful and nice. They were a big help.
Great listener. 6/5
Offered me advice and actual solutions to my problems. Definitely the best listener I've had so far!
A truly wonderful listener.
Very supportive
Helped to put things into perspective for me and a truly kind, genuine person. Thank you
He/she was great!
Thank you for listening
You were very helpful
Felt much better after talking with her. Really listened and took time to understand my issue.
pretty good
Bee is Wonderful, Always very patient and doesn't judge. Thank You for taking the time to Listen to me even when I don't make sense.
Listened very attentively, understood how I was feeling and was empathetic. Overall a very support kind experience that helped me, especially after the tough week I had, these kind moments matter so much. Thank you Bee!
Absolutely awesome to chat with. I feel 100 times better. Thanks for all the honest opinions and advice! You're amazing.
Thank you
Bee is very kind and a good listener. Thanks You!
Bee is always so thoughtful and understanding. They're supportive and encouraging, which makes it easy to open up to them. It's really nice to know that you can share what's on your mind without any fear of being judged.
I felt comfortable talking to her about a very difficult subject for me.
Great Listener, a pleasure to speak with.
Bee is patient, understanding, and kind. They made me feel safe and understood, without judging or criticizing. While some bees might sting, this one does not. This is a bee you can trust.
Bee is awsome and really helpfull! Thanks๐Ÿ’Ÿ
great listener
Bee, was an amazing person to talk to! She made me feel loved and beautiful!
Thank you
You're the bee-est Bee
Thank you
Sharp. Solution oriented (which is nice).
Thank you!
very kind
Great job!
I felt very well, with a great human being. Very precise in their responses. I felt like being in a hug of my mother.
Very good!
Thoughtful and considerate of my responses.
great listener
very helpful and patient
Just awesome
Listened to me passionately and patiently.
Best listener I've talked to in awhile. Genuinely cares. Thanks so much for all your help, you're great! :)
Kind, insightful and non-judgmental - the way a good listener should be!
listened to everything I had to say, very kind
Just great!
Really understands the issue that we talked about and made me feel begter
They are nice
Awesome talking with you, thanks and hopefully we will be able to speak again.
excellent work and a big help, thank you for your time and effort
I cannot believe that I am just now getting to write this review. I've been talking to Bee for a while now, and she is just an absolute darling of a person. Super caring, super attentive and just an overall beautiful soul. She has helped me through hard times, and what's more, she is one of the few listeners who discusses BDSM related issues in a serious and actually helpful manner. That is so rare to find on the site and is so important for people like me who are struggling with understanding and coping with that specific sexuality. She is the best
Really had a good time talking to Bee!
" Thanks that I can say only in words " words are not sufficient for you and I will remain in touch with you Bee for " LONG " as much possible for us in " ANY WAY ACCORDINGLY " :)
"much Love "
God bless you !
Excellent listener, 5 stars all round. Makes me feel optimistic that people want to be so helpful to strangers without wanting anything back. They make the world a better place.
Such an astonishing listener with great potential to help many more people to come.
A good one.
Amazing. They're very insightful, experienced, and well aware of issues. Very responsive and professional as well.
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