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I still like him…
Relationship Stress / by avlast227
Last post
 July 25th, 2021
...See more Ok so I had this church camp a week ago called KOV and it’s basically a church camp with a lot of competitions. Everyone is out on a team and you have team games and etc. and it’s always the best week of my summer. This year I was a main leader, so I got the chance to be in the main leader dance. Dance practice was every day after camp from 8-10:30 pm. While I was at dance practice, I met this guy who was in the Blueberry team (I was on the tomatoes). I never knew him before but he and I started talking and we got along really well. He was VERY attractive and just the sweetest human being. On Thursday during camp, I had a red ribbon in my hair because I was on the tomatoes team and that was the color. His team and my team were going up against each other in a game at one point and he came up to me and said “give me your ribbon” and I gave it to him cause I didn’t care. He wore that ribbon in his hair the rest of the day. At the end of camp that day, I told him I wanted my ribbon back and he said he’d give it to me that night at dance practice. I told him that it was unfair that he had something of mine and I didn’t have anything of his, so he took a hair band off of his wrist that he had been wearing all week and he put it on my wrist. He then took off a bead bracelet off my wrist that a camper gave me and he started to wear it (even though it was obviously very tight on him). That Thursday (cause camp is Monday-Friday) he and I were like kinda flirting during the dance practice about how I have his hair tie and he has my bracelet and etc (cause he tied the ribbon on his wrist and refused to take of the bead bracelet no matter how tight it was) but like very subtly and we played basketball together during break and it was cute. As dance practice was ending, he came up to me and asked for my snap and I obviously said yes. Then, that night he was snapping me nonstop and kinda flirting with me but not too hard but still a lil noticeable. On Friday once camp ended, there was an after party for the leaders to stay from like 5-8 pm and I originally had to leave by 5:45 to go to the lake but I just couldn’t leave everyone so I decided to call my mom and say nvm. So I ended up staying the night at my friends that night instead. He and I were snapping the whole time and flirting and etc and I had to give the hair band back cause I found out it was his cousin’s, so he had apparently brought a scrunchie of his from home to give to me in place of the hair band. He also told me he wasn’t giving my bracelet back which I didn’t care cause it was cute when he wore it. Over the next 4 ish days he and I would be snapping and flirting hella hard this time and it was great. He told me that someday he would take me fishing, hunting, teach me how to drive a stick, take me to a graffiti walk, make homemade pizzas together, go to fright fest together in October, etc. etc. He and I even FaceTimed from 11:30 pm to 7:30 am the next day. A whole 8 hours straight on FaceTime just talking about anything. Stories and etc. I really liked him so far. But then on that 5th day, he went to work and was like “hey bro im going to work so I won’t text you till late tonight✌🏼” and i was like “okay” which is weird cause he called me bro and just how he said it but I was like oh well it’s prob fine. Then I stayed up until he got gone at 11:30 pm even tho I was tired cause I wanted to talk to him and he said “go to bed” and I told him that I wanted to talk to him and he didn’t respond so I said “I can’t sleep” and he responded with “I can gn” and that one hurt a lot. I just said “gn” cause I had nothing else to say. The next day after that he was just leaving me on open a lot and giving one word responses and only texted me once to say that he was gonna go see black widow in theaters tomorrow so he was excited…but that’s it. I texted him telling him he was acting weird and that I don’t get what happened. He responded by saying that “when we first started talking I was tryna hint to you that I want a relationship with you but I don’t. We won’t last because your going to college in a year and I’ll be heading to Tennessee for flight school and I just have a lot going on. I think you’re a great person but I just don’t want a relationship right now. Idk if you liked me but it seemed like you were wanting a relationship and I just don’t” and that was basically what he said. He’s a year younger than me if that helps you understand better idk. It just sucks cause he led me on so hard and like we donteven need to date idc, I just like him tho. He goes “can we just be friends?” And I was like yes ofc but then he didn’t even act like friends anymore. Friends still talk to each other. He’s just ignoring me completely now. Did he find another girl? Someone who is better? Or prettier? Idk. All Ik is that I loved talking to him and now he won’t even talk to me and it hurts A LOT. Okay that’s really the whole story. Thanks for listening🤍
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Ok this is going to sound crazy...
Relationship Stress / by avlast227
Last post
 March 11th, 2021
...See more I am currently struggling and crying every night over the most stupid thing, and I’m going to tell you. So, like a year ago I started talking to this guy on Snapchat. He was extremely good looking and he and I just started out talking as friends and stuff. I would randomly ask him like 101 deep questions all the time to get to know him, and he answered most, but never asked me any back. That’s not a big deal tho. Anyways, a month or so later when we were going to bed, for a few days in a row he would say “goodnight❤️” with a heart and so I would do the same AND THEN like a week later I found out he got a girlfriend and he didn’t seem to want to tell me about her. I assume he started dating her after the hearts he sent me (I hope), but it’s still weird that he started dating her right away after. Anyways, flash forward to a month after or so, they broke up and he still didn’t say anything about it to me. But then he and I started talking a bit more but it was always just as friends and everything. Ok so now like flash forward a year from when I first added him on snap, we start to talk more and more on snap. Then one day (like 2 weeks ago) he send a pic which kinda hinted that he wanted to send some interesting stuff to each other lol and so we started to like tease each other over snap until we were actually sending nudes. Keep in mind that I always thought he was the most innocent person cause he never asked me for nudes once in the whole like year until then. Anyways, I then found out he had a bad side to him also (which I like cause he’s got both) and so during the day everything was chill and innocent and then at night he would ask me when I’d have my hw done so we could send stuff, and it was truly very fun. Ok so that’s when I started to fall for him even more (I never send nudes...I think only ever like one pic to a guy before this, but I thought this guy was special which is why I did it a lot). He also used to be like “dangggg” when I’d send pics of me all dressed up on my birthday cause that was his way of saying I was pretty. And he also told me that he wanted to meet me multiple times and hoped we would someday (he lives in the same state but like 3 hours away from me). Ok so to sorta wrap this all up, after that went on every day for like two weeks, just like 3 days ago he stopped asking for stuff and stopped snapping me much. I know he’s snapping people and could snap me, but he chooses not to. I’m not his #1 bsf on snap either when he’s mine, therefore I know something is up. Did he get a girlfriend all of a sudden again and doesn’t wanna tell me? I confronted him over snap last night and told him he was confusing me and I explained why and I was like maybe I’m just crazy and he was like “you are :)” cause he used to like call me weird and crazy but in a flirty way for a long time so he was doing it again. After that talk he started snapping me more that night and smiling on his snaps to me again, but today he wasn’t. He just went back to the straight face snaps like twice a day and that’s it. No more talking, no more sending...it’s just weird. And what’s stupid is I let that get to me and I’m hurting. I’ve never met him, never heard his voice, probably will never meet him, but somehow I fell for himself rn who he is. I got a chance to get to know him and I rlly seemed to like him, but apparently all he wanted were pics from me. If that’s all he wanted, then why did he wait a year to ask? It’s just stupid. It’s as crazy as liking a tv character, it’ll never happen between he and I... but I guess a part of me just always hoped he’d feel the same and we’d have this cute long distance thing. He and I get along so well and to have him not be the same rlly hurts and I’ve been crying every night since he changed and I don’t know what to do. Now I’m not expecting advice on any of this cause most of y’all will think I’m absolutely crazy for falling for a guy I’ve never met, but I just thought I’d get this off my chest because nobody else would wanna listen. Thank you. I will now go finish crying before I have to go downstairs and see my parents lol
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