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Girlfriend found out the truth
Relationship Stress / by bestPineapple8195
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August 24th, 2022
...See more My girlfriend of 11 years found out things that I have hidden from her which was me buying a video each from two girls I know about 2 years ago and I don't even know why I did. I deleted the videos and have been truthful ever since but she finally found out the truth and when confronted I kept lying and making things worse because somehow I thought that it would be better then her knowing the actual truth. Well I've been dragging out this lie for a week and it was killing her because she finally thought that I had told her everything but I didn't and it ate at me until I broke down and told her. I don't know what to do or even how to begin to fix this if there is even fixing it. I'm so lost I do t want to lose her but at the same time I feel that she should leave me for something g better.
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Having a problem telling the truth.
Relationship Stress / by bestPineapple8195
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August 24th, 2022
...See more New to this whole thing but I've been hiding things that I have done in my relationship because I have I lying problem that I can't figure out and recently she has found out the truth and it's breaking her and the only reason I hid things is because I didn't want to hurt her and I can't bring myself to ever tell the full truth in fear of making things worse but I know holding it in longer will make it worse but holding it in is eating me up inside and I just don't know what to do. I really do lover her and I don't want to keep this up but I don't want to tell her the truth either.
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