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blueAcai6270
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should i apologize
Relationship Stress / by blueAcai6270
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 September 25th, 2021
...See more so a little over two years ago i was dating this guy and i really liked him and he treated me better than i deserved at the time. however we got into a fight because i wasn’t putting in enough effort which at the time i felt like wasn’t true but now i know it was. anyway he confronted me about it and it totally broke my heart because i cared about him i just didn’t know how to show it so when he was saying these things it hurt. he wasn’t perfect and said some very hurtful things during that time but i know it was out of hurt. we broke up and haven’t said a word to each other since. but i’ve grown as a person and realize that i was also in the wrong and feel bad for the way i treated him. i know it hurt him and he probably resents me but part of me just misses talking to him everyday and i want to apologize. should i apologize or should i just move on from it
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i feel crazy and need hell
Relationship Stress / by blueAcai6270
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 March 30th, 2021
...See more his is going to be long but i really need help. so in the summer of 2019 i started to catch feelings for one of my friends. we hung out a lot with a couple other people and it was always so fun and it felt like there was something there. i didn’t want to tell him or my friends how i felt because i figured it would last the summer and go away and he is related to my best friend and i didn’t want it to be weird. but the summer ended and i still liked him and then he got a girlfriend so i figured there was never anything between us and i made it up. then one day i was hanging out with him and my friends and his girlfriend and he told me that over the summer he had liked me (he didn’t know i liked him). i was shocked and just played it cool and laughed it off. i was confused because why would he tell me that with his girlfriend in the room and also because i still liked him and i didn’t know what to do. i eventually told some of my friends and they were shocked but supported me and said they could see us together. fast forward a few months and he and his girlfriend broke up and i still liked him but i still didn’t tell him how i felt. after they broke up we started to talk a little more and when we hung out we were a little flirty nothing crazy just things like scooting close or long looks at each other. but by this point all my friends thought i was over him. i got hope that again maybe there was something there but neither of us made a move. i told one of my friends and she said she saw how he looked at me and it seemed like something was there (this could be a bit biased considering we are friends). that was a month or so ago and still nothing has happened. i feel crazy for still liking him after so long and i feel like im making up all the flirty things and there being something and i don’t know what to do.
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