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...See more Hello! I am 28 yrs old and my boyfriend is 30. Weve been dating for almost two years. At the beginning of our relationship our sex life was very tame we would do it maybe once every couple of days but I would really have to go for it because he didnt seem very into it. He also did have mono like a month into dating.. So he obviously wasnt very up for anything. After the mono passed we had moved in together. We did everything very quickly and the sex wasnt that great it didnt last very long seemed like he wanted to do it quickly but I told myself at least I have a guy that loves me and he is very caring and affectionate. But then he started to loose his erections.. I really started to think that he wasnt attracted to me and didnt love me.. but he kept trying to reassure me that he did care but the mono must have messed with his hormones. So he went to see a doctor to get everything checked out and he is fine. But we havent had sex in 11 months (the doctors visits were spaced out) and now he says that hes nervous to try again. But I am loosing my mind. I could walk around naked in the house and he wont even get a boner but he did say that he masturbated so everything is fine down there. And when I try to initiate he refuses saying that he doesnt feel like it right now. I dont know what to do or what to think anymore. Should I leave him? Should I stay? Thank you so much for taking the time to read this! Looking forward to seeing what you think.

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