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blueOcean6753
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Mens Health Issues
Men's Issues / by blueOcean6753
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 July 4th, 2025
...See more Hi I am not a man so, but I want to understand some of the changes that men go through 40 and over. My boyfriend has low testoserone and is now experiencing some dizzy spells where it feels like he is falling foward and throwing up. He thinks it could be a sinus issue or a mens change of life. Any suggestions? 
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Leave or Stay
Relationship Stress / by blueOcean6753
Last post
 May 24th, 2025
...See more Need some feedback on this one. Would you leave your significant other if they told you they would never get married after they told you that is what they wanted with you. I don't feel like it is a deal breaker because if you want to be together you will be married or not. Don't want to lose him but don't want to waste my time either if he does not see a furture with me. 
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Loss
Grief & Loss / by blueOcean6753
Last post
 March 3rd, 2025
...See more Lost my aunt and grandmother in less than a month and a half time frame. Learning how to get through each day and work like everything is normal which it is not. I feel angry some days and others I break down and cry at my desk, can't take time off of work to get myself together and feeling resentful over that. Work should not be more important than my mental health and being there for my family. But if I lose my job then I lose my home and everything else I have worked for. If they could just give me a week without making me work from home that would help and I can have the time I need with my family. Could not even attend my grandmothers funeral because I could not take the time off to fly out of state there. And all right before the holidays. I will be looking for a new job after the holidays are over. Plus my health insurance sucks with them too can't even go see a specialist with the coinsurance costs being so high. More reason to leave this place. 
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Tired of repeating the same thing and having no change.
Relationship Stress / by blueOcean6753
Last post
 December 5th, 2024
...See more Basically, if I try with you and you don't appreciate my efforts, sooner or later I'm gonna be like *** it and start to do me, I won't tell you, I won't let you know, we won't have a conversation-about it. l'll just leave you there, hanging. Like you left my feelings there, hanging.
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Sadness
Depression Support / by blueOcean6753
Last post
 July 24th, 2024
...See more My boyfriends depression and addiction is affecting us financially, physically and mentally. I'm sinking deeper and deeper into depression and I don't want to walk away but sadly I'm fighting the inevitable. I love him very much but this is not the way we should live. Our happiness, joy and our light has faded because of his sadness and addictions and you can't help someone who doesn't try to help themselves. I'm broken at the choice I may have to make but I'm praying for a miracle that he will want help to stop and try harder to take the steps to make it happen. He's an amazing man with so much potential but reality is he's weak to his addictions and there is a huge possibly he will not change. I feel we are wasting our lives away with sadness and depression. Very unhealthy. ð¥º
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My loved ones loss
Grief & Loss / by blueOcean6753
Last post
 June 17th, 2024
...See more My husband just lost his father and it's tearing him apart inside. He's picked up drinking and pill use to deal with the grief. He has stopped taking care of himself also completely let himself go. Any advise on what I can do on my end for him? I just listen to him and try to encourage a better lifestyle. I have even called therapists for him and not getting through. I know I can't rush his grief but just trying to help him find a healthier way to get through each day.
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It's not going to work
Relationship Stress / by blueOcean6753
Last post
 February 24th, 2024
...See more It's time to leave this relationship with my boyfriend but I find it so hard to do. I can't afford anything and have no where to go. Is it possible to stay living together and stay separated until one if us can move out? I am very unhappy with him. I love him but I don't want to live like this. Mentally he is breaking me down and I have allowed it far to long. I'm miserable.
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In love with an alcoholic
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by blueOcean6753
Last post
 February 18th, 2024
...See more Can a relationship work out and be happy together if one is an alcoholic and an addict? My boyfriend can't stop drinking and wants to and he takes pills with his alcohol. I try to help him but he doesn't want it when his mind is focused on drinking but wants the help when something happens like he gets hurt and can't remember what happened or he wrecks a vehicle. I don't want to walk away from him but his actions and lifestyle are causing major issues is our relationship and our lives.
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