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blueScarf786
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Stressed about work
Anxiety Support / by blueScarf786
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 February 6th, 2020
...See more I started a new job in September last year and the first few weeks were Rocky for a number of reasons. Ive stuck it out though and felt like I was making real headway...until today when I found out that my client has gone over my head to talk about concerns he has about the function I lead on. Hes gone straight to my boss, who the came to me to ask what was going on. I said I might have an inclin and told her what I thought it might be. Im just worried sick now though because I confided in the client about an issue I though was a personal grudge against me and now Im worried the client is going to throw me under the bus and say hes concerned about us as a team. In my anxious brain Im arriving at the worst outcome (I get sacked, cant pay my bills, mortgage, loans etc lose everything) I know its a negative way to look at things but I really cant help it and now its spiralling out of control. I know worrying isnt going to change what may or may not be said but I really cant help it. All I want is to do a good job but Im worried Ive mucked it up.
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