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braveDay4317
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The Initiation
Relationship Stress / by braveDay4317
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 March 11th, 2017
...See more Hello everyone!! I am new here and I just wanted to share my dilemma hoping someone can help. I am a private person and I hope taking this step alone helps me. Here's the deal: I love my boyfriend to death and I love having sex its never a problem. But when it comes to initiating, I suck. I don't know why I am this way but I can't help it. I could be horny out of this world and super wet but like you said I will freeze like a deer in headlights and it all becomes a waste.This is something that has been bothering me for some time and has gotten me quite down in the dumps. My bf has a high sex drive but because of my lack to initiate sometimes I feel like I'm not doing enough for him. Sometimes I even have a hard time looking him in the eye while having sex and it has nothing to do with him or how i feel about him. It may be some self shame or insecurity but I don't know what it is deep down that keeps me from freely being openly sexual. Its tearing me up and its affecting our relationship. I hope someone sees this and has some kind of encouragement or insight because I am stumped on how to help it and i'm tearing up as I'm typing and thinking about it.....
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