Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
braveDreamer20
762
L Novice
5 star rating
Rating
Number of ratings3 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceDec 24, 2016 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 7 People helped7 Chats5 Group support chats0 Listener group chats0 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes0
Bio

I'm here to listen and help the best I can!(:

Recent forum posts
braveDreamer20 profile picture
Is it normal to still love your ex while in a relationship?
Relationship Stress / by braveDreamer20
Last post
 January 17th, 2019
...See more Hello everyone! A little background: my bf and I have been together for about 7 months now. We work together (I know, I broke the no-coworker rule) but myself and our peers always comment on how healthy our relationship is. Unfortunately these past few months, I have felt really insecure about my bfs past. It is hard for me because we also work in the same company with his ex (they lived together and were on and off for 6 years) and she has recently been making appearances at our location for no apparent reason. I know I should be mature and not let it bother me, but it makes me crazy. I takes to my bf last night about how its getting way too hard to work there when its taking a toll on my focus and insecurities. He told me he understood where I was coming from and he thinks his ex is coming in on purpose to mess with him/us, but that he wont go back to her ever again. What got me is he said its also hard for him to work there too because of hearing her name/seeing her from time to time now (idk if its bc he still has feelings or if bc he knows its effecting me). He still has her number saved in his phone, and was going through his phone one day and deleted certain pics of her/them except for one in specific. Maybe Im just different bc when I have a breakup, I delete numbers and pictures, and avoid myself from my ex and soon fall out of love. I guess what Im asking, do you guys think he still has feelings for her, or am I just overthinking it?
Search more from @braveDreamer20
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
Self-Harm
Breakups
Forgiveness
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Social Anxiety
Loneliness
Relationship Stress
Badges & Awards
7 total badges
Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening First Post Five Steps
Report an issue