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brightCircle1764
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Love of my life?
Addiction Support / by brightCircle1764
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 February 5th, 2021
...See more My bf is an alcoholic. We have an amazing life together and things are wonderful, until he drinks. Then everything goes south and anything that he has held negatively about me from the past 2 years just come out like word vomit. Most of the nights end with me crying and putting him to bed so he wakes up in the morning for work. Some nights end in me finally deciding to walk away and see what happens. I love him and I know he can be his true self again but he hasn’t accepted his addiction so he won’t change. I know I can’t force an addict to chose to get better but I can’t continue to hurt like this mentally after every drunken night. I don’t want to leave him I love him and know we can have a good life together. Advice please? How can I help him? How can I avoid these conflicts when he’s drunk?
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