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brightPerson9519
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Lost and confused
Relationship Stress / by brightPerson9519
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 November 4th, 2022
...See more Over the past year or so I’ve found myself getting upset over the smallest things. My fiancé has stopped doing the little things that made me feel loved and wanted. Tonight he told me that he did all of those things before I started nagging and just constantly complaining… now I feel like I will never get that back. I know I have things to work on and so does he… what do I do?? I don’t want to just give up but I feel so lost and I feel sooo unwanted and unloved by him… We do live together and I just feel like he doesn’t help me with anything around the house. He will say, “I’ll do the dishes in a minute” and he never does. I just feel like when someone says they’ll do something you need to be accountable for that. So I get upset because I work pretty much 40 hours a week then I have to come home to dirty dishes, laundry on the floor, and just the house a mess. I would love some advice and tips on how to start to rebuild the relationship and start that connection again. (I just find myself looking back on memories and wanting that love back). I know people say there’s a honeymoon phase but I just feel like it’s the bare minimum that I’m even asking for and can’t get.
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