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brightRainbow44
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hello there..about me: i m a music lover and i strongly believe in its healing power..its worth trying dears..and..i aspire to be a good listener.. a shoulder to cry on..a best friend to share ur pain shout/scream..and throw all ur tantrums at..i have been through many ups and downs through out the journey of life and that has taught me many imp stuffs..one of which is the importance of having someone listen to you..to vent out ur pain..to make u feel someone us around; I would like to support the ones struggling with relationship stress..feel free to ping me when i m online..or drop a note if i am offline and i will get back to you at the earliest...i am right here!! Remember .."storms don't last forever"

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feeling helpless in love
Relationship Stress / by brightRainbow44
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 August 24th, 2017
...See more I have been in love with my best friend for several years. there have been several ups and downs in our relation as the usual ones would have. Everything has been normal except that, he cannot tolerate me asking any questions like, why he had not called me up for last 2 days, is everything alright etc. he is like one fine day he would stop picking my calls, goes somwhere, keeps fon off, or block me, or doesnt respond at all and even though i am used to this pattern by now, each time i get worried for him if he is alright. I keep quiet for a day or so thinking he must be busy as usual and then will try to reach out to him when he doesnt respond at all for days. Then suddenly he would call me back some day and i obviously ask him what happened with him..he keeps mum for these questions as if he is not listening; everything else would be back to normal except for these questions. When he does not like something i say..immediately he ll respond .".i dont like the way you talk " and disconnects the call and may or may not call again..for days.. I cant imagine breaking up with him and he too cant (i think). But this behaviour makes me so upset and i feel so helpless that he does not let reach him at all until he wish. I end up dialling his number 100 times with no response; Is this how loved ones are supposed to be treated?? i really dont get why he behaves as if doing mercy on me..like if u want me around..follow terms and conditions..and i dont get why am i feeling so weak to accept these and hold on..why am i afraid of losing him when his behaviour makes me think sometimes atleast that he does not care at all if i leave forever ...i feel like saying "get lost" sometimes when i get hurt badly and taken for granted...but i m scared he ll just leave and will never come back.
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