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brightTortoise145
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Relationship Stress / by brightTortoise145
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 July 15th, 2022
...See more Hey everyone. I have been with my now fiancé for almost 9 years and we are going to be getting married soon. I have been struggling with my relationship with her and we fight almost every single day. This past year has been one of the hardest on us as she had extensive leg surgery and has developed severe complications from it. On top of that, she lost her father suddenly and that has also been extremely tough. I don’t always handle certain situations appropriately and I often make things worse by just speaking to speak without really thinking about her and what she is going through. She feels I don’t truly listen to her and her feeling ignored is a major tigger for her. I do want to change and to truly be there for her but my thoughts/emotions don’t match up with my actions. I really love her and don’t want to lose her but something is just not clicking. How can I figure this out and really get to where we once were?
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