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I don’t know what to do
Relationship Stress / by bubbleTown9145
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October 21st, 2023
...See more Hey everyone! If you anyone could give me some advice on this, that would be appreciated!! im currently in a year long relationship with my boyfriend. (D) We’ve been happy and doing well. In my theatre program I am involved in there is another dude (E) who I find attractive as well. I have never acted on it as I know this is wrong and felt it was only in passing. Last year, I had definitely felt something was there when we would interact and this caused me to seriously think about things with D and if I wanted to continue. However, I still cared and enjoyed the time I spent with D which was enough to out rule the feelings with E. It also helped that I didn’t have much contact with E after the program was over for the season so these feelings faded. Now, the new season is in full swing and me and E have even more time together during rehearsals and scenes. These feelings for E have quickly come back and it does not feel like they will leave anytime soon. The other issue with this is that the season will not be over again until December so I still have a while to deal with these feelings and there is no way I’m able to avoid E. The other issue is that me and E’s characters in this show are romantically involved so there are things involving that which are not helping this problem either. As these feelings resolved last year and I didn’t talk to D about them last year until I was sure, (I know not to make any advances with E while in a relationship) I would like to do the same now as it is even more tricky. This was something I thought a lot about and worried about last year and I have a feeling it will be no different this time around as it is already starting to happen
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