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Need relationship advice.
Relationship Stress / by bubblecup17
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 January 20th, 2021
...See more I will try and make it as short as possible. To give you all a better idea. My bf is 23yr and I'm 27, 4yrs diff. So, long story short in this bit. I had a handful of unfortunate event occurred in my life and it ended me up living in same roof as my bf+his family. Okay, I been dating him for total of 3yrs and live with him and his family for 2yrs. Now, both of us work but since the start of the pendamic I been working a lot more at a small grocery store. I do my best to spend time with him but there will be days I am drained from work and I just rest(sleep). Due to being tired from work, he and I don't get intimate as much. Plus there be sometime things he did or do that put me off it and also I'm not much of that kind of a person. So, through these times we had fair amount of arguments about it. He get mad at me for not giving s** and he would bring my past relationships as a argument point. I told him I'm tired and don't feel like doing it. And he won't take it as an answer. Over time he came to accept it and let me be. Now, another thing happening is I notice many times he would not talk to me about things. Things that bother him or things that stress him out etc and or even small stuff like he injured himself or whatever he would go find his mom for help instead of me. I'm always the last person. Not to compare me with his mom. Of course mom be the important person in everyone's life but there be times and things is between 2 ppl in relationship to do, solve or talk about. I don't even feel like he see me as his gf. Anytime we try to talk things out he would get so stress out and end the conversation and leave the room to be with his parents. I kid you not, he would tell them everything! Even things you don't want them to know. Oh, and also, our anniversary. He didn't even gave a sh**. I asked him nicely to plan something. Anything. He didn't. I ended up suggesting to go for dinner. I chose the restaurant. I just don't know what to do. Did I brought this upon myself for not wanting to have s** and busy with getting my life together for our future sake? I'm sorry is long. And sound like I'm complaining. But pls help.
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