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caitlyn4321
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Relationship Stress / by caitlyn4321
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 August 25th, 2021
...See more Please don't be quick to judge, I haven't added everything in here that my bf and I have talked about but everything I am going to say is something he is okay with, like having snap location on. If you have questions please ask and don't just tell me I am in the wrong right awya. That's what happned when I posted on another form in another app. I'm not against people calling me out but maybe ask questions to get the whole story before doing that please. So here it is: So my boyfriend and I have been. together almost a year, we met on Tinder and we've been doing really good. We have brought up different issues and talked about them, we have been growing a lot together. But lately something has felt off, and fyi I am on my period so my emotions are a lot worse than usual. Anyways, when we started like officially dating I had found out that he vapes, and I'm not okay with that. I told him the only way I would date him was if he would stop. He had told me he had already been trying to stop and would be continuing to try. He hadn't had a vape pen for like 6 months and last week I'm over at his place and I found one, and it upset me and I tried to not make a big deal about it. We talked and he just kept saying trust me. So I let it go, because I trust him. But lately other things have been coming up, like he keeps canceling on me, and turning his snap location off. And throughout our entire relationship we've always kept location on just because, it's not like a violation of his or my privacy. But he keeps turning it off after canceling on me, which is concerning to me because that's what my ex did to me before he broke up with me. Last week we hangout and he told me he had to help his brother before going to work so I needed to leave around like 2. So I did, and this wasn't on purpose, it was a complete accident, but I do delivery driving and shopping. And I go a 2 order delivery, one of which was to the same complex that my bf lives in. So I go to drop off the order at the persons place and my bfs car is still there. And please don't think that I purposefully did this or that I'm controlling or anything because I was just working. Sometimes I mess with him and take his phone because I find it funny how he reacts but lately! realized it's a little concerning, he freaks out and 5akes it from me. And I don't even like go into it, and he will grab my phone and sit on it messing with my apps. The most recent thing that happned was he told me he could hangout last night but than proceeded to cancel on me to go get drunk with friends. And I had to ask him if he was hangingout with me with not,, he didn't reach out to me to let me know he couldn't. When we're together everything is fine but when we are apart something doesn't feel right. And I don't think he's cheating. I really don't, his ex cheated on him with 5 guys in a 6 month relationship and also wrongfully accused him of rape. Oh ya and after he told me he couldn't hangout last night he turned his location off. And he blames the location thing on my phone saying my phone is acting up
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