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catoholic11
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Got attached to another guy while in a long-term relationship
Relationship Stress / by catoholic11
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 October 18th, 2021
...See more Hi. I need an advice. My bf and I are in a LDR and we've been in a relationship for 7 years. We're both overseas workers. Recently I have been in contact with an acquiantance and we hit it off. We went out a couple of times. At first I wasn't worried because I thought we were not doing anything wrong. I am not sexually attracted to him and nothing happened between us. But attachment got in the way. I was always talking to him every day so I got used to him being around. He said he has romantic feelings towards me although he has a gf in our home country. I told my bf everything because I couldn't lie to him. Now the other guy went home for vacation. It has been 10 days since I cut my communication with him because I don't want to break-up with my bf over him. But I can't stop thinking about him. And every little thing reminds me of him. I want to message him but I know it will only lead to more confusion. There is no one I can talk to because I know they will judge me. How do I get over this? Any advice? Anyone?
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