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Is my Boss being inappropriate??
Work & Career / by chuusupremacy
Last post
 February 17th
...See more I work for a *very *small company. For the last two years it’s just been the owner and I. Initially I was hired to answer phone calls and get sales, but business was so slow that he ended up giving me other tasks like billing and posting on social media. Things were going great. Whenever I got sick he’d let me work from home, when I got a flat tire he payed for a new one, he paid off my credit card, bought me a TV for Christmas and would give me little bonuses here and there whenever I was drowning in bills. However lately it’s been bad. Im doing terrible mentally. Since October he started getting stressed and overwhelmed with the workload and takes it all out on me. It started off with him texting me 8-10 long paragraphs during and after work hours about how much he hates his life and job, how stressed he is and how little time he has to do anything. Then, he started doing it in person. I have hours of audio recordings of him screaming and having absolute meltdowns, cussing and yelling things like “F*** THIS, F*** MY LIFE”. God forbid I make a mistake during these phases, I get scolded at so unprofessionally he reminds me of an abusive boyfriend I once had. I wake up and cry, I’m so anxious for how I might be treated once I get to work. When I get home my mind just replays all of the screaming, when I go to sleep I continue to have dreams about me just sitting there and listening to his tantrums. It’s so mentally draining to have to sit and involuntarily be this man’s therapist. The panicking and shaking that happens while he’s screaming exhausts me so much that I started going to sleep at 7 or 8 pm. On top of all of this, he talks about very inappropriate and sexual topics. He’s never made any comments towards me but he likes to talk about str*p clubs, OF and things of that nature. He only knows how to refer to women as b*tches and says terribly misogynistic things right in front of me. I don’t have a degree in marketing or graphic design so I don’t know what he expects from me, but scolds me in very passive aggressive ways. Today he didn’t even greet me, he stomped in and immediately said “we need to get the social media going, unfortunately pictures of cars don’t get us sales” in the most aggressive tone ever. He will go on for hours about how awful the ads I make are and insists on having them be completely AI (ha let’s see how that works out for him). It’s absolutely degrading to be spoken to that way. I’m all for constructive criticism but do you really need to go on 30 minute rants about a certain 3 second clip I included? (He didn’t like how the installer was wiping the windshield). Nothing I ever do is right or can be accepted. He will sit and make me do tiny tweaks and redos all day then yell at me for taking all day!!!!!!! The issue is, there’s no HR for me to report this to since it’s a small company. There’s no supervisor or boss above him. I don’t know if I’m able to report his unprofessional behavior to something like the civil rights department because basic unprofessionalism doesn’t “count”. I do have an audio recording of him today saying that people who speak Spanish are *** and mocking them so making I can get him for discrimination?? Let me know what you think ☹️
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obsessed with my boyfriend ex
Relationship Stress / by chuusupremacy
Last post
 November 4th, 2022
...See more I’m 18 and my boyfriend is 21. This is my first relationship & he has had a few long term relationships in the past. He genuinely is a great boyfriend and takes really good care of me, but one day I got this really strong feeling to check his phone. When I did, his ex was texting him photos of them when they were together, some of them were of them in more ~intimate moments~. My boyfriend did not text her back at all but she was texting him almost every hour for DAYS. When i asked why she was unblocked in the first place, he said he checked up on her about a month ago because she was in a bad place mentally and struggling with drugs. Ever since i’ve seen these pictures i’ve become extremely jealous. She’s so beautiful, not a single flaw. I keep comparing myself to her, looking at her social media accounts every day and just tearing myself apart. I am so scared he’s going to leave me for her because of how gorgeous she is and how much they’ve been through in the past together. He reassures me everyday that he would never leave me for anyone but this insecurity is ruining our relationship. I am logged into his *** & made him keep his location on at all times. I’ve been trying to be a better girlfriend than her, i’ve bought him flowers and write him letters whenever I can. They broke up in march but every few months he finds his way back to her, even if it’s just a few words being exchanged. He promises he’s 100% over her but i just can’t believe him. I don’t know why he would chose me over her. How do I leave his past in the past? How do I stop ruining my relationship with my boyfriend over my own insecurities?
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Feeling Invalidated
Eating Disorder Support / by chuusupremacy
Last post
 March 22nd, 2021
...See more Sometimes I question if I still have an eating disorder because I’m no where near as restrictive as I used to be. The thoughts are definitely still there, but i’ve gained so much weight back and i’m not super upset about it??? I feel like if i gained this weight a year ago, I’d be freaking out and restricting like crazy. Can anyone else with an ed relate?
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