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coconutbubble97
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Is there any going back with this “friend”?
Relationship Stress / by coconutbubble97
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 June 25th, 2021
...See more I am in a really happy relationship. Like I know this is my person. It’s been 6 years and we live together. I am in love with him. I would never physically cheat on him. But I can’t stop it when people flirt with me. It’s people I really want to be friends with but then they start flirting and I want them to like me. It’s like I’m afraid that if I don’t flirt back then they won’t ever want to talk to me. This doesn’t happen with a ton of people but there is one right now that I really, really like as a person. Like he is so fun to talk to and connect with but a little flirting started and it was fun at first but then it turned really sexual. I played a long a few times. He said he understands and doesn’t want to lose our friendship and that he will stop but then literally 5 minutes later is hitting on me again. He says it doesn’t mean anything but some things he says makes me think he is starting to catch feels. Idk He’s 7 years older than me, is a teacher (like me) in the same district, he is VERY well known in the district (in a good way). In another life, I would date him but in this life I just want to be friends. My boyfriend is my #1. Idk if I can have both. Is there any going back? :/
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