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Can be a steady, and level head for others and can often probe good questions to assist in understanding the underlying problem. Hope with understanding and clarification around the matter it can offer one a sense of peace or closure.

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People pleaser by nature, gentle constructive advice welcome
Relationship Stress / by comfortingName3849
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 November 14th, 2020
...See more I work away on cruise ships, work colleagues become your source of friendship. Made friends with someone, not my type of person. Can be sweet person, but equally it can lead to people telling me what to do etc. Not necessarily negative, but it's not what I ultimately want. Made a friend with someone who has a very grounding influence of me, and is a loyal friend. However very uninspired, dislike her conversations as she talks about others not necessarily in a mean way, it's just not my most thrilling idea of conversation, infact talking about people I generally find very dull. And we have very different interests and outlook on life, she is into make up and clothes, fashion. I know for her she enjoys it, yet for me maybes it's superficial or maybe find it very dull. Anyway, I can be a social person, yet when she is around she talks about everyone and I feel restricted. She got angry at me yesterday, and in turn I got angry at the one of the other staff members. And as a second point of advice, I feel very ashamed about that. Attempted to apologise to her, but it insincere. So if anyone has any advice on how to deal with the shame I felt, And secondly any thoughts on how to move away from this friendship. She is soon moving in to my accommodation. And in honesty, she's not someone I really enjoy myself around. If you know what I mean. Anyway, hope to hear back. It's really troubling me. Hannah
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