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compassionateHemlock3513
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Don't know how to make friends.
Relationship Stress / by compassionateHemlock3513
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 November 16th, 2019
...See more Well, I don't have many friends in my life. Whenever I want to talk to them, I always feel that I'm the only one being active. That makes me don't want to chat with my friends any more. Besides, they always have funnier friends than me. Then I tried to make some new friends on the internet, but things didn't go well. I found out that I don't really know how to react to one by one friendship. Maybe that's why my friend always have funnier friends then me. In case I'm too boring for them. I just don't know how to be their closed friend because my personal issue. Maybe, I just want to be part of a group, not a person's friend. Or maybe I just can't trust anyone to be my friend and not getting annoyed by me. I don't even know if I'm annoying to my friends or not. They're acting so passive to me, just like I'm a mysterious creature who living in a cave, only need to interact with me when I'm not sleeping in it. I don't like to be anyone's important friend, but I also need to have some friends that I can just sit beside them and join the conversation without being focused. But if I do have this kind of friendship, I start to get our friendship into an oneside situation. Then I don't want to chat with them anymore...all the things just loop again. ...Did anyone might have some advice for me?
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