Don't know how to make friends.
Well, I don't have many friends in my life. Whenever I want to talk to them, I always feel that I'm the only one being active. That makes me don't want to chat with my friends any more. Besides, they always have funnier friends than me.
Then I tried to make some new friends on the internet, but things didn't go well. I found out that I don't really know how to react to one by one friendship. Maybe that's why my friend always have funnier friends then me. In case I'm too boring for them. I just don't know how to be their closed friend because my personal issue.
Maybe, I just want to be part of a group, not a person's friend. Or maybe I just can't trust anyone to be my friend and not getting annoyed by me. I don't even know if I'm annoying to my friends or not. They're acting so passive to me, just like I'm a mysterious creature who living in a cave, only need to interact with me when I'm not sleeping in it.
I don't like to be anyone's important friend, but I also need to have some friends that I can just sit beside them and join the conversation without being focused.
But if I do have this kind of friendship, I start to get our friendship into an oneside situation. Then I don't want to chat with them anymore...all the things just loop again.
...Did anyone might have some advice for me?
@compassionateHemlock3513
people are so focused on themselves they barely notice they're with other people at all. I know you feel all the conversations are one-sided, but I assure you that a really nice group is a rare thing. I went on for more than fifteen years before finding a group of people I'm comfortable with.
Have you ever tried roleplaying games, like D&D? The people I met in those occasions are among the kindest and most inclusive in the world. I know nothing about your tastes, but now there are so many RPGs you will surely find something suitable to you.
@friendlyDime1588
Sounds very useful... Maybe I should try more different groups. I'm kinda frustrated for making friends, but maybe it just hard to find a suitable group of friends.
