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...See more Hi, I know this message might sound weird on this community profile , as I know there will be some people here experiencing “real grief” the thing is that at the end of august I met someone , after having a horrible year with my health I was finally getting better and this person appeared out of nowhere , the thing is that I was asking to the universe to find someone like him ( it blows my mind because even the little details I asked about him were there ) he actually lives in another country, but his family lives where I live so he came for holidays at the end of august and I thought we both fallen in love so quickly, we spend the most amazing weeks , crazy for each other , he used to tell me he never felt like this for someone and he was already calling me my love, all his family and my family knew about each other , then I went to visit him to his country , and after that amazing time things started to get wrong , I asked him what was going on , and all of a sudden he told me he was not prepared to have a long distance relationship ( we already talked about this and he told me he was okay with being long distance before he changed his mind ) we are 3 hours from each other by plane anyways , the thing is after that he ghosted me, and I tried to contact him a few times because I truly felt what we had was real, and I don’t understand how someone can open to you like that and then disappear , it doesn’t make sense in my head, it’s been a month since we spoke last and k miss him deeply every day, it hurts so much and I wish someone could tell me what is really going thru his head 😔

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