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compassionateNest8019
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Boundaries not respected
Relationship Stress / by compassionateNest8019
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 October 25th, 2024
...See more My wife has an ex that has crossed so many of my lines, and she wants to hang out with him alone at his house. I’ve expressed how it makes me feel awful, and I’ve expressed that I wanted to set boundaries because I don’t believe in making them not friends anymore… but my boundaries involve not hanging out alone at his house. She won’t agree to it. She’s going to see him today. She said “trust me to go or I’m packing my bags” She says I’m controlling, possessive, and obsessive. And that I don’t trust her. But I don’t find that’s the case. I do trust her. She texts guys all the time. Ones that she has history with. I let her hang out with her old fwb alone at his house. But this ex boyfriend, has crossed so many of my lines. He proposed to her after she was already engaged to me. She was texting g him last week and she said “we are just friends, but I wish it were more.” On *** she said something about a dinky and he wrote back “we both know you like *** ;)”. I’m just very uncomfortable with their current relationship. Especially this new thing of going to have “coffee” with nick (the ex). I’m not comfortable with it. And she won’t respect it. I have to let her go alone, or she’s packing her bags.
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