Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
conscientiousMelon1443
1 81 M Embraced
PathStep 1 Compassion hearts9 Forum posts1 Forum upvotes2 Current upvotes2 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2023 Member sinceNovember 9, 2022
Bio
Recent forum posts
conscientiousMelon1443 profile picture
Different sex drives
Relationship Stress / by conscientiousMelon1443
Last post
 February 28th, 2023
...See more I recently got into a fairly serious relationship (about 4 months ago) after sleeping my way around a bunch. I’ve been friends with my current partner for about a year now, and they have known all about my “escapades”. When we got into this relationship I made sure to ask if they were asexual or anything, because I have a pretty high sex drive and sex is very important to me in relationships. They told me that they were definitely not asexual and were very interested in that aspect of a relationship with me. Fast forward to recently, it’s been about 6 weeks since we’ve had sex. I’ve brought it up, and their explanation was that they have a low sex drive. A recent quote from them was “yeah sex is okay I guess”, making me think they might be a bit asexual after all. I know that they use toys on themselves every once in a while though, they seem to just not want to be with me. Our relationship is pretty great in every other aspect, and they make sure to assure me that they care about me and find me attractive, but I am having an extremely hard time believing them. If they really found me attractive wouldn’t they want to be with me? This has only added on to my serious self confidence issues, and has made me reevaluate the relationship. please help, any advice is welcome!
Search more from @conscientiousMelon1443
Talk to an expert therapist
In life, there will be stress and challenges that make it seem difficult to...
Talk to Ashley Now
Badges & Awards
6 total badges
Hand Shake Linked Quintet First Post Reaching out First Compassion
Report an issue