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considerateBeach4409
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Nervous about confronting partner
Relationship Stress / by considerateBeach4409
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 April 4th, 2022
...See more Hello! I’m looking for some support or guidance about bringing up an issue with my husband. I apologize if this gets a bit confusing or long. We have been together 10 years. For background purposes, my husband is a “furry”. He doesn’t dress up or have a persona (that i know of) and I was under the impression this was just his porn preference. I’ve always known this about him, but it does not appeal to me and I’ve just let it be because It didn’t have any impact on our relationship. My husband has broken my trust in other ways in the past. I still have anxiety about him being unfaithful and sometimes my urge to snoop through his messages gets the better of me. I recently looked through a message chain with his ex gf. She is also a furry and she had sent him a link to a furry artist’s Facebook page. My gut reaction is that this “wrong”. But it’s such a weird situation I don’t really know who to turn to for help. Idk if this was meant to be sexual in nature or if it’s something else. I feel so out of the loop about this part of his life, but I wanted to give him the space to be that side of himself. But what is he actually doing? Is he like role playing with other people or sharing sexual content with his friends/exs?? I haven’t been able to focus on much else. I am also so afraid of bringing it up with him because I should not have looked at his messages. I also don’t know if I’m ready to hear his response :/ Thank you if you’ve read this far. I am not totally sure what I am looking for here. How would I begin to approach this?
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