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considerateClementine3156
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i feel lost
Depression Support / by considerateClementine3156
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 September 14th, 2024
...See more I find myself being exhausted all day and dreading work and just dreaming for my days off so i can get out and do something. then when my days off come i sit and rot and just can’t get myself to do anything alone. cant get out of bed or brush my teeth. then the day feels wasted and i feel even worse about myself. the days people do invite me places i’ll be sitting there just feeling like i should be having fun and be happy but i’m not. i feel like i can’t enjoy things, and it makes me feel guilty because i know i should be. i know i used to enjoy them, but now everything feels the same. it all feels like a hassle. work, eating, cleaning, driving, sleeping, hobbies, even hanging out with people. i just don’t understand what to do? i’ve gotten advice about how it’s good to pick up hobbies you enjoy, but then what if nothing brings me joy? how do i get out of this funk?
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Recent break up
Relationship Stress / by considerateClementine3156
Last post
 September 17th, 2024
...See more Recently my boyfriend wanted a break from seeing each other because of problems in our relationship. It’s been about 2 1/2 years together with a break early on in the relationship. He reassured me that he just needed space because i was too dependent, too insecure. i understand his feelings and know i have been that way, i know i’m anxious and need help to love myself, that i can’t dependent on him for that. a few days later, i’d noticed his location, i won’t get into details, but it wasn’t adding up. we hadn’t been talking but we kept location on. i felt sick and tried calling him to talk things through about the break and fully understand the boundaries of our break: whether it was a break from communication or a break up. i broke a boundary in itself when i contacted him, he got upset and he told me he wanted a break up. emotional and patchy communication continued to happen for days after that. he’d text once then not respond for 24 hours and i felt completely blindsided. about a week ago he revealed there’s someone else. a few days went by without communication before he texted me he missed me. i ignored him. a few days later he texted me he wanted to give me the ending i deserved and give me closure. all of this has happened in less than a month and i feel so blindsided. even after the break he was telling me he loved me and was waiting for me, then the send he told me about the new woman he told me he’s been falling out of love and blamed me for not picking up his hints. i feel like i’m going crazy almost. he broke up with me because i felt insecure he’d go to someone else, he admitted to lying to me to keep me happy in the relationship, and then suddenly he appears with someone else? but i needed to go to therapy because i was scared it was going to happen? i tried asking him why he would text me he missed me if he had someone else already and is alreayd out of love me with. he told me it’s so i don’t hurt myself over him. i’ve never threaten to, i’ve never hurt myself over him. it made me feel so weak. i just don’t understand what’s happening and how to even move on from this.
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