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My girlfriend has hidden conversations
Relationship Stress / by consideratePlane9054
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 April 23rd, 2024
...See more Me and my girlfriend were looking at the difference in photo quality between my phone and hers yesterday. When I opened her gallery, I noticed there was an album called "hidden," so I asked her why she had this album. She told me it's present on all iPhones and quickly took her phone back. However, this made me suspicious, so after about 10 minutes, I brought up the topic again because I noticed she's always on her phone. She got angry and told me to take her phone and see for myself. I checked the album and found it empty. After talking for over half an hour, she finally confessed that three months into our relationship, a guy she used to talk to contacted her and had screenshots of their conversation. Moreover, he called her at night, and they talked on the phone for 4 hours (she claims she was talking about me, but I don't believe it much). Throughout this, she said she didn't tell me because she was afraid of losing me, and the important thing is that she chose me. However, she then brings up if anyone at work hits on her. So, my doubt is, why didn't she tell me about this? Why did she try to hide it until the last minute by deleting everything? I'm someone who trusts, and I'm afraid this might change my way of being. She says it's not a big deal in the end, she didn't do anything, and she didn't cheat on me, but this is what she told me. I don't really know what happened, talking on the phone for 4 hours, not talking about anything. What do you think about this? Give me some perspectives. This was something I really didn't expect; it caught me completely off guard.
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