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...See more Me and my husband have decided to get a divorce. We haven’t done the deeds yet because there has been a lot that has happened lately including family illnesses, death and financial issues. He has to go abroad now for up to a couple of months. So we can’t go ahead with the divorce until he is back. Besides I didn’t want to stress him out more than he already is stressed with all that was going on. The problem is now I have developed feelings for someone online. My husband found me chatting to him and has warned me against it and made it out that it wasn’t fair on him and that I was a *** as I wasn’t divorced yet. Honestly I’m scared of him as he can get very angry and can sometimes be violent. I’m now feeling guilty for still chatting to this guy. If my husband found out I would feel like a cheater and a disloyal ***. But the truth is I’m already checked out and have been for the past 8 years. If it wasn’t for my kids I wouldn’t still be in this marriage. But the reality is I’m feeling really lonely as I don’t have any friends to talk to. So I suppose that makes things worse for me and makes me miss this guy more. I’m trying not to talk to him but I miss him so much I end up talking to him again… Please give me some advice… what should I do? Should I leave this guy until I’m divorced? Am I wrong? If there’s anyone out there who would like to be my friend I would really love that…

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