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courageousKitten1227
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Confused as how to approach this
Trauma Support / by courageousKitten1227
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 August 21st, 2025
...See more I have been married for 3 years now and on the surface my marriage looks perfect but there are things even I was trying to make sense of or say it’s not big enough. He hit me for the first time 1 month into our marriage and then said that he just pushed me and it’s normal because even siblings push each other I repeated this to myself everytime he would hurt me like it’s normal he didn’t want to I triggered him all that but deep down I think I was understanding that it isn’t right . I confronted him that he can’t hit me he promised he would never but it just stopped for sometime but in the meantime he started breaking stuff around me . I started getting panic attacks after hearing anyone shout or some loud noise. He disrespects and demeans me privately and then behaves very good in front of others like there is no one better. I have tried telling people no one trusts me everyone says he is such a good guy and loves me so much but I know the truth. Telling my truth is one thing but if I have to keep proving my abuse I would hate it . Just because I have no visible marks is it okay? What should I do?
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