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My boyfriend of 4 years is being distant
Relationship Stress / by courteousAcres844
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 September 13th, 2025
...See more Hi, me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 4 years, starting from college. Now that we’ve graduated, he has a lot of work pressure and I’m also trying to sort out my own life. We don’t meet as often as before, which is okay, but I miss him a lot. I feel like he doesn’t put much effort into expressing himself in chats, so I told him that I feel one-sided and need some reassurance. He said he is going through a lot right now. The next day, he texted me saying he thinks everything has changed — even his love for me. He also does not believe that things will be same like before but its not true for me. I don’t feel like anything has changed, I still love him the same, maybe even more. But he’s been distant for a week, and whenever I ask about us, he just says “I don’t know.” His work is also very hectic. How to handle this? how to get closer to him 
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