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courteousKiwi26
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Porn addiction
Addiction Support / by courteousKiwi26
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 June 5th, 2025
...See more Hi, I’ve stumbled across 7 cups to help with my emotional wellbeing. My boyfriend is addicted to porn and I found out somethings a month ago on his phone to which I confronted him about. I didn’t know it was as bad as what it was. I’ve explained to him that it hurts and makes me feel upset. He’s finally admitted after many attempts to hear him say it, that he’s addicted to porn, he’s tried to stop and just can’t and that he wanted to tell me many times but was terrified incase I left him because of it. I feel like it’s a conversation I keep having to bring up because it’s really affecting me mentally and I don’t know how to help deal with my own feelings and help him as I could never understand how both addiction and watching porn feels. I don’t watch porn due to previous relationship trauma. He tells me he’s reduced but I know that he did for a week and has fallen back into it. He deleted *** which was a big part of it, but has now re-downloaded it. He has ADHD so social media feeds his constantly active brain. I fear he will fall back into hiding it from me like before. I just want to help him but don’t know how or where to start as I know he also needs to help himself
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