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courteousPenguin9408
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Losing feelings/constantly annoyed/ “ick”
Relationship Stress / by courteousPenguin9408
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 May 23rd, 2025
...See more Hey all, So the big thing I’m struggling with right now is getting super annoyed or angry with my boyfriend about anything & everything he does. He is about the sweetest guy I have been with so I don’t understand where this “ick” feeling is coming from. I lash out at him all the time for no reason. I told him I feel like the man in the relationship just because I’m not as emotional as him—he takes everything to heart. I want him to show his emotions (every man should) but I feel like he’s hyper emotional and that is very annoying to me as a woman. It makes me feel like I can’t be in my “feminine energy” and I have to take over the more “masculine energy” role when this happens. How do I get back into being more care free? We have been together for about 10 months— I’ve felt like this for probably 4 ish months. I know I can’t control my anger the best, but maybe I also have some sort of control issue as well?
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