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creativeOcean42
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Number of ratings381 Number of reviews146 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceSep 24, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 689 People helped665 Chats2,057 Group support chats10 Listener group chats8 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes2
Bio

A warm welcome from New Zealand.

It takes a lot of courage and strength to talk about painful things that matter to you. If this is your first time, be comforted by knowing that you're acting on a part of you that wants change and cares for you deeply. I am a qualified and registered counsellor and I am dedicated to helping people get through all types of mental illness and relationship struggles because I know from first-hand experience the power of talking openly and vulnerably.

On a personal note, I’ve struggled with anxiety, depression and panic, but through reaching out like you, I’ve learned to be more self-aware and equip myself with tools that empower me to be functional and in good relationship with myself and the people. Please note, I only offer what's called "Brief Intervention". If it becomes clear that your issues are based in the past or require deeper, more long-term care, it'll be better for your long-term wellbeing if you reach out to a face-to-face therapist. I'll let you know if that's the case as we chat. If I am online, please feel free to contact me. I’m glad you’re here.

I'm only taking support chats not casual chats when I'm available. 

Feedback & Reviews
They really made me feel seen and heard, and explained things in a way I could understand
Skilled, professional, and caring. Definitely a premier service!
a great listener
He's a great dude to talk to. He's a positive person, and even if he doesn't understand where you are coming from, he's willing to listen and challenge what he believes in. 10/10 I highly recommend
Seems to have a positive attitude about life.
really good listener with good attention and good questions to really help you look at and remember things. very recommended!!
Great listener, was able to hit the nail right on the head, helped me to understand what I’m going through from a different perspective.
"Créative Ocean".. cette personne était d'une très bonne écoute et compétant en plus de cela. Merci beaucoup
very professional. very polite. can recommend him.
A very good listener with a lot of insightful comments and suggestions
Very kind and quick replies
Very good listener
Very good listener
Well-structured conversation. Helped me work through some heavy things within me.
he was great, he let me feel heard and also helped me see other perspectives about my (very serious) issue I was facing. I can't stress enough how good of a listener he is!
He's really GREAT
Thank you so much. Our conversation was very helpful for me. This listener is very empathetic and understood my situation very well
Ocean listened fabulously and provided some key information to help me reduce or even remove my self-critical and judgy behaviours, which I project onto the world. The key thing I learned was "reframe your actions as a response to a need", so instead of saying "I suck for sleeping late", I could practise self compassion and at the same time take responsibility for my action by saying, "I chose to sleep late to respond to my need to connect and learn from a friendly and kind stranger"
Thank you so much very helpful and supportive thank you
This person is empathetic, kind and trying the best to make you feel comfortable and being heard and seen.The person is full of ideas how to feel better but focusing also on talking with you and trying to understand your feelings and thoughts.Not just making you forget what you are feeling but making you try things to feel better even if it is hard.
Very understandable unbiased and kind
Supportive
Have great listening skills
very kind and a good listener
He’s GREAT
Grateful for the experience, thank you for the book suggestion. I felt heard which was good enough for me. Thanks
Best listener on 7 cups,
Amazing listener.
Engaging listener to chat with! I felt heard and listened to
he's a cool listener, talked me through it
listens to understand and helps steer you in helpful directions. just a lovely person wow.
Patient listener and helps organize your thoughts
Nice person, high comprehension, genuine and friendly.
Gave me helpful insights and shared tools to better express my feelings while making space for others’ feelings as well
Very dedicated and solution-oriented questions...
Really cool guy
This person was nice and helpful
The most amazing listener I have ever had the pleasure of speaking with! He made me feel safe, comfortable and valued. I really appreciate the chat more than I could ever explain. I hope to speak again soon.
very articulate listener
Really supportive right now
they really seemed to understand me; they asked really good questions that helped me through my situation, and they were really empathetic and encouraging. a really fantastic listener!
The chat was quite eye opening tbh!
Good listener. Responsive
Awesome chat!!💯
Very skillful in assisting others get through problems in life. It was extremely enlightening to interact one-to-one. A surely important individual who is an asset in the lives of others.
Very open and down to earth loved it!
They are good at showing that they are listening to what you are saying
cO42 helped me arrange my thoughts into a way that prevents me from completely panicking. THANK YOU SO MUCH
Very helpful and patient listener. Offered a lot of advice and knew exactly how to help.
A very helpful and invigorating chat! Thank you so much!
Extremply inteligent listner. I toubtthat he is not a listner but a thearapist
Really helped calm me down, offered some much needed advice
This listener really helped and shared wisdom on my issues.
Very respectfully and gave me advice which have experiencal wisdom
Was very good at listening to my problems
Good listener....
It was a nice talk, and was nice to hear other person opinions on my problems
Amazing Listener
Good listening skills
Awesome points and tips, full of energy, desicated
very helpful understanding and nonjudgmental
Really good listener!
the perfect professional as how the listener should be...
this listener was wonderful. Very responsive and helpful
He was amazing!!!!!!!
Great insights thanks xxx
He is just amazing. One of the best listeners I have ever come across
Theyre making me realize things about myself that i didnt even know
Hes great
A listener who is willing to spend quality time and access your problems. 10/10
I've had a few conversations on here with some listeners but none as attentive and detailed as this one.

He is very concise and on point with his statements and listens to you. Invests the time and dedication to truly understand what you're going through and for that I can only say great hings about him. He helped me in a time of need and I have absolutely no doubt he can do the same for you. Thank you again brother you made a difference and it matters. Stay safe and keep optimistic
Very understanding and open.
Ocean assisted me with brainstorming problem solving skills to work through an area that was causing me a lot of issues. Thank you!
Very nice
Very helpful.
Very kind and thoughtful!
One of the best listeners I've had on here. Really knows how to bring new perspectives to a situation and make you feel more at ease.
Very knowledgable and relatable, genuinely good person.
A really great person. I felt like we were tuned into the same frequency. I felt like I knew this person a lifetime. The best
he is really amazing, listens to my problems very well, and helps me a lot in finding solutions to my problems.
My active listener was amazing!!! I liked his/her style. I definitely left with ideas that I've never thought of before.
You do an incredible job really getting to the root of the issue. Thank you!
creativeOcean42 has a real understanding and way of really exposing a truth that is really special. Thank you!
Amazing fella!
Very lovely person. Compassionate and helpful
Really helpful.
Very helpful
Really good listener :)
CreativeOcean42 is THE best listener I have talked to. Ocean helped me with discovering a plan to handle my emotions. Thank you, Ocean, once again. I'm glad to have met a gem of a listener on here.
Listener was responsive, empathetic, professional, caring, and very helpful. I was going through a difficult time and s/he was very sympathetic and understanding through observing themes in my sharing and encouraging me. Really, really great experience. Thank you!
Amazing listener, by far the best i've spoken to
Attentive and understanding
I had an amazing experience with Ocean. So lovely, so supportive, so kind and understanding. I recommend them greatly. :)
Definitely the best listener I've had so far
Helpful
Very responsive and incredibly compassionate while remaining professional.
LITERALLY THIS IS THE BEST THERE IS OUT THERE
AMAZING
Great help. Listened to problem and gave great advice.
Really good. Helped by formulating possible solutions as ideas.
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