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creativePark2132
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Just trying to be happy, be the best boyfriend, friend, brother, son

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Inflicting pain and I don’t know how to stop
Relationship Stress / by creativePark2132
Last post
 March 31st, 2024
...See more Hey guys, I know this may be a long question or answer but I am really struggling making my girlfriend happy. A lot has gone on that we have endured with my family issues and her family issues and stuff I have done to her and she has done to me that we are trying to move on and learn from. We just seem to find ourselves in the same spot where i have done something to deeply hurt her but my intention is the complete opposite and I feel like no matter what I do, I am just making things worse. We have been together for 2+ years but it feels like we have had more bad moments than good recently. does anyone have any advice for this? anything will help as I am really struggling with trying to make things work and do the right things. Thank you
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I can’t seem to stop hurting the one I love
General Support / by creativePark2132
Last post
 April 11th, 2024
...See more I genuinely care so much about this person. When things are good between us, i am the happiest person on this planet. I try and cherish those moments as they seem to come and go really frequently. i will admit, i have done a lot of stupid things to hurt my partner. Things that have occurred multiple times too which intent or not, does not make things better and only makes them worse. there has been a big divide between my family and my partner and overtime sides have almost come together but when my family side is learned from mistakes and I feel like the relationship is good begween my person and them, they aren’t ready. Which is ok and I don’t mean to rush them at all as i want them to feel comfortable. My family has done a lot of wrong to hurt them and if things go wrong between my partner and I, they think the worst of them and pin things on my partner when they don’t deserve it. That has gotten better and I think the relationship is forming but my partner doesn’t want it and it has made my relationship with my family worse. i don’t feel connected to them anymore and feel like I have to choose sides. I can’t be at home as i am not choosing my partner as she might not want me to be here. It makes her uncomfortable sometimes and I know that should be enough for me to drop everything but I love my family. I miss then and my relationship with them. I have learned a lot and matured and seen things I never saw before in my family. Things that i don’t agree with and have moved on from, but they are my family and I care about them. how can I not hurt my female of partner if 2+ years while still doing things I want to do. How can I make her feel more comfortable in my family. How can I support her at all times and choose her at any given second without hesitation when i am not always able to. How do I be the best boyfriend and mske someone happy. j feel like I just bring pain and suffering and tears and she has exclaimed thoughts of hurting herself and it scares me so badly as she is nothing short of amazing but she doesn’t always get that treatment from me. I give her a lot and she expects a lot but when her mental health has deteriorated because of me, I want to help so desperately but also am giving up parts of myself as i feel like it’s only fair to i just need some guidance. I am scared that she has had deep hurting thoughts of herself because of situations between us. It kills me and makes me feel like her life would be better if i wasn’t even here on the planet. Just floating away in space
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