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crimsonLemon6903
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Seeking a reality check on men, attraction, and addiction
Relationship Stress / by crimsonLemon6903
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 March 20th
...See more ​I’ve been spiraling a bit today after some things I read in the "Men’s Issues" community, and I really need a woman’s perspective—specifically from those of you currently in relationships. ​Two things are stuck in my head and making me feel really down: ​On Attraction: A man recently said, "Men can't love unattractive women." As someone who doesn't always feel attractive, this hit me hard. Is this actually how men think? Or is it possible to be loved deeply for who you are, even if you don't feel like you meet some "perfect" standard? ​On Habits: When I went looking for "men's emotions" to understand them better, I mostly found posts about porn-related struggles. It made me feel very disconnected and, honestly, a bit cold. I'm struggling to feel pity for that. For those of you in relationships, is this something you actually deal with? Is it as common as these forums make it seem, or is there more to "men's issues" than just that?And do you find your partner not into it? If someone can help with that. Please help kindly. I really need to pass these thoughts
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