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How Do I Move On?
Relationship Stress / by cuddlespooh
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 October 4th, 2015
...See more My 4years LDR relationship ended recently and I cannot seem to let go. He cheated on me with his colleague and his exact words for the break up was 'Serene, please don't call me anymore. My gf is upset'. At that time, my whole world came crumbling. Being an introvert, it was extremely hard for me to open to someone and when I let him walk into my world, I just wanted to feel loved and spend more time with him. When he got together with her, I found a significant difference of him. He sounded bored talking to me and will never find the time to come visit me. During that 4months of period (him cheating), I was the only one initiating the conversation and struggling to make the relationship work. I wanted to go visit but he didn't let me, saying he'll come to me but never a definite time. As time passed, I started losing hope and I wanted to breakup but he didn't let me saying he will make up to me. After the breakup, I asked him why he led me on and he said it's because he was at fault and wanted to be the one who initiate the breakup and wants to do it face-to-face. I questioned him why didn't he come to me sooner because I was walking on tightrope and was I not worth his time to do so? He said if he were to come over to me, his gf would want to follow then his family would know all about him cheating. Despite our 4years, the 1st 2years that we were together, he wanted to reconcile with his ex and I found out. I was heart broken but I let him sweep me off my feet and I forgave him. And last night, he posted a photo of them together (after 1month of our break) and I broke down. I was so heart broken and felt like I didn't mean anything to him. He easily erased me and moved on while I'm here still hurting and crying. Also, he's my first love. So it is more difficult for me. I want to know how do I let go and move on. I feel so vulnerable and it's eating me up. Please help me. Thank you.
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