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dapperTiger5510
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Attachment issues. Please help
Relationship Stress / by dapperTiger5510
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 September 29th, 2025
...See more I've been in a long distance relationship for a year and a half now. He is such a nice boy, so caring and sweet, and i think i am the problem in our relationship. He has a work and i'm still studying (i have one year of university left), so i actually have a lot of free time and I'm also an overthinker with self esteem and anxiety problems (diagnosed). Since he's always at work, we only talk in the evenings on weekdays and I feel so anxious about not having more time with him. Tonight he is gonna be out and, I don't know, when he told me this yesterday i freaked out and broke up with him. I know that i'm so immature, i really wanna heal, please give me advice, i can't go to therapy right now. When we are together in real life, things are so good, but we can meet only once a month and in the meantime we always fight because of me
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Fear of abandonment
Relationship Stress / by dapperTiger5510
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 August 30th, 2025
...See more I'm in a long-distance relationship right now (it's been almost 2 years now) and my boyf and I only manage to meet once a month, for a weekend. I suffer from generalized anxiety (diagnosed) and i think i might also suffer from fear of abandonment. My boyfriend recently found a new group of friends (there are both females and males) and i'm so so scared of losing him (i'm actually happy too because he deserves love, but still scared, yeah) and the only thought keeping me going on with this relationship right now is "if he will ever hang out with a female friend (just the two of them), i'll block him everywhere and disappear from his life". I know that i'm so so so wrong and i know that i should trust him (he never gave me reasons to not trust him, but he is also very shy and doesn't tell anyone that he is in relationship), but i really can't trust him 100%. I wanna change my mindset because I know that it's wrong and toxic, but i really don't know how. I also have very low self esteem. Please, help me, i don't wanna screw this :(
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