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defgroove88
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What I Did For Love
Relationship Stress / by defgroove88
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 March 1st, 2015
...See more Yes, it's the title to s great song from a chorus line, but it also holds so true to all of us, and what we would be willing to do for love. Meet me, andrew and meet autumn, who accidentally meet each other on facebook, grow close and develop a committed and long distance relationship for 1 1/2 years. Then after 2 years, she became interested in her ex boyfriend and wanted an open relationship. So I stayed cause she made me happy and I made her, so we made it work. Then she met a guy on Tindr, and became infatuated with him, that's when it all changed. Because of her ADHD, and her impulsiveness, she began to make mistakes to hurt others and herself and also pushing me and her ex out of her life. I love this person so much, even now and I believe she's the one for me. I know everyone sees love differently and has different beliefs, but I strongly feel this for her. I'm 26 and she's 23 and she says she's confused and doesn't know what she wants, and I believe her. And today, she made it official that she was separating from me. We had a Disney world trip planned for next week, and she says she sti wants to go with me and that it means something to her. I don't know what to do, knowing we are broken up and after this I don't know when I'll see her again. I need help. 
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