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Do i let go or move on?
Relationship Stress / by diamondstyg
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 September 17th, 2016
...See more Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. We dated for 2 and a half years. He broke up with me to "find himself" and to focus on his job and himself. He wanted to be "Free and live life without worries and without someone questioning him". We talk frequently (which i know is a mistake). Whenever I ask him if its permanent he gives me an I dont know. I ask him if i should give up on him and he says "I wanna say no, but i dont know. I really dont know. I dont know if this is permanent or not. 50-50 chance." We are both 20 years old, high school sweethearts and just broke up going into our second year of college. We are eachothers first everything and our relationship was solid besides slightly controlling on both of our ends. We have never broken up before. I dont know what to do. Should i let go or hold on? We will be back in college together in less than a month, and right now all he does is work all day every single day at a ranch in the middle of nowhere. He's not partying or anything, just working. He says part of him wants to move on and part of him wants to wait it out. But i cant keep living like this. We had plans to marry one another and then i was completely blindsided. The breakup was so random. If you think i should let go and move on, HOW DO I?! I've been staying busy, exercising, everything that people suggest and i cant move on or let go. PLEASE HELP!
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