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What would you guys do about my situation?
Relationship Stress / by dipaalmi
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 August 20th
...See more My boyfriend used to *** while thinking about several girls when he was single. The problem is that this wasn’t before he met me, because we had already been in a pretty serious relationship. During the time we were broken up, he did that with girls that we both know, and honestly, it makes me really uncomfortable. I asked him to stop following the girls he did that with, and he told me that he only followed one of them for that reason, so he unfollowed her. But recently I found out that he also talked to and greeted some of the girls he had thought about. I saw that as disrespectful, so I talked to him about it and decided to forgive him. Now I’ve found out that he also lied to me when he said he only followed one of them for that reason, because he actually followed more. Even though he has unfollowed them now, I’m really angry because I feel like so many things have been building up, and especially because he lied to me. I know that sometimes I react badly and, when I’m really angry, I say hurtful things to him, even if I don’t insult him. I know that isn’t right either, but I feel like this whole situation has made me build up a lot of anger and distrust.
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