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I have been feeling like breaking up with my bf
Relationship Stress / by diplomaticEast1814
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 June 21st, 2023
...See more ¿ ¿ ANY ADVICE ?? I am 21f and he is 21m, I have been feeling like our relationship isn’t great anymore I always feel like I’m not heard, and like when I talk about things that concern me he always gets mad and find something to blame/say to me about. He gets angry and then I end up apologizing when I don’t feel I even did anything wrong. I understand he needs space as well, but I feel like he always prefers to do things with others/anything else, than spend time with me. i just don’t feel like one of his priorities. I feel exhausted trying to explain so I just don’t anymore, it sucks because I feel like I’m always pretending to be okay with things around him, when I’m not so we don’t have an argument. I just think I’m so drained, I was letting myself go I gained weight and was looking like a bum on the daily. I didn’t want to take care of myself. I feel like I’m just putting more effort into the relationship than he is, or just more interest/importance to it than him. i just want to stop feeling this way, I love him a lot, and he is sweet and everything but, I feel like a relationship can’t rely on just being sweet. Ya know? ADVICE?
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Help, I don’t feel okay
Relationship Stress / by diplomaticEast1814
Last post
 June 2nd, 2023
...See more I don’t know where to start, I’m 20 F and 21 M is my partner. We are in a long distance relationship, 2 different countries far. I wish I could just link the texts and y’all could read them it would be much faster lol. My boyfriend has been busy with work and school lately like all week since Thursday last week, we haven’t talked in the phone or done anything together (we always talk on the phone at the end to talk about our day and such) we text through the day, but this past week, we haven’t much, mainly because he says he’s busy or he’ll say “hold up” and then never gets back to me until hours later. Now don’t get me wrong I have been nothing but supportive because school and work are important I know. But due to this and us literally not talking at all, I have been missing him more and feeling a bit lonely and upset. A little bit ago, I decided that I was going to express what I have been feeling to him, I just wanted his support and comfort, I called him and I didn’t realize but I just started crying and nothing was coming out, so I typed it, I said “ive just been feeling lonely and I’ve been missing you a lot more lately since we haven’t spent any time together” to this he got mad, he said, “I have to and? I have things to do, why are you being so inconsiderate, why are you always picking a fight with me?” “I prefer to sleep than deal with you” so I just said “I’m not trying to pick a fight, you always say to express how I’m feeling to you, and that is all I am doing expressing how I have been feeling, all I wanted was some comfort and support, I didn’t mean to make it seem like a fight I just expressed my feelings? I’m sorry, I won’t bother you anymore, I’ll let you sleep, goodnight” he ignored anything I even typed and said goodnight I feel confused, I don’t understand what I did wrong, I have been very understanding and considerate toward his work and school and him being busy, I have been supportive toward it and wishing him and things like that. i just don’t know if I’m just not seeing it, I just wanted to comunícate my feelings and feel heard/comforted. All I got was him being mad and annoyed almost by it. lately every time I have tried to express how I am feeling about anything in general, I am always ignored and told I’m wrong for feeling that way, or he thinks it’s me trying to start a fight and then turns It all on me making me feel bad in the end for expressing my feelings. At least that’s how it always feels. it’s a lie if I said I haven’t been crying all night because I don’t know what I did wrong. What do you guys think?
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