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...See more me and my ex met last year in may (this was online, we live in different countries) instantly there was a connection and sparks flying everywhere, couple weeks later she confesses she likes me and i confess it too, fast forward to mid July i catch a flight to go and see her, everything is perfect, we had so much fun and even started talking about marriage, we were both deeply hurt when i had to fly back home, in October i flew to her for a week for her birthday and met her whole family, and we had only been dating for 3 months, known eachother 5. We all got on and she told me that they loved me, she came over to mine and met my family at Christmas where we were together for about a month, we were the perfect couple, we were from different backgrounds but we connected so easily and this was the first relationship ive been in, she had been in a couple before me but nothing that serious. Fast forward to start of april, she confesses she might have feelings towards her best friend ( the best friend is a girl, and yes she was bi before we started dating ). But actually when we met my ex said that she was 90% lesbian and 10% (my name), she also confessed when she had feelings for her best friend that she was polamoryous. So we tried a situation where we both could date her but in the end it didnt work so then my ex had to choose who she wanted, in this time of choosing she told me multiple things that she loved me, didnt want to lose me, to not give up on her, but yeah in the end she chose her because she had never expierenced a lesbian relationship, and she said the feelings were deeper with her bestfriend she didnt want to wake up one day and regretr v experiencing so i had to let her go. But i still loved her so much that i tried to fight and show her what we had but she shut me down all the time, and my thought to that was she is just trying to hide her love for me so she can continue with her new gf. Its been a few months now, and i was doing better but the last few days ive been checking old messages and tiktoks she used to send me, plus an *** note with a song she used to relate to us and it made me feel sick. I know what we had and it was perfect, my gut is telling me that she'll come back when the time is right and we can both be stronger together, but knowing that she is doing what we used to with someone else deeply hurts me, what can i do and what are your opinions on this? I can add more details if needed, just need people to speak to

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