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Confused on Behavior. Is this toxic?
Relationship Stress / by dogmom2000
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 June 30th, 2021
...See more I’ve been having trouble recognizing whether or not behavior from my partner is toxic. I would appreciate any advice. So some backstory: just yesterday I cleaned the entire house and it took a lot out of me. I was tired and exhausted and my partner showed appreciation. Fast forward to earlier today- I wake up, do my routine and then sit my desk to paint. I hear my partner slamming things such as his phone and his drawers to his dresser. I can hear it threw a load of laundry in the washer. He eventually comes in our room and asks if when I do laundry, if I only do my own. I say no as we’ve been living together for 2 years and have always done our clothes together. I can tell he’s frustrated but won’t tell me why. We have no agreement as to me being the one cleaning and doing laundry, he is free to do laundry when he needs. We keep Vaseline on the desk which he uses constantly for his cuticles. I’m sitting at the desk painting and he teaches for the Vaseline but moves something else out of the way aggressively. I moved the thing back to its place and he not only slams it on the desk but he says something along the lines of this in a loud tone, “I moved it so I could use it” as he motions towards the vaseline. I tell him to just leave and he mumbles “fucking stupid” as he walks out. Do your partners react this way? Is this toxic or him being upset?
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