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drakkardnoir11
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Did he use me for sex? I feel broken.
Relationship Stress / by drakkardnoir11
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 August 11th, 2019
...See more I've been dating this guy for about 4 months. Last week I phoned him because I wanted to know where I stand with him, i was feeling on edge and just needed to know. He reassured me saying we are on the same page etc, I also told him it would bother me if he was seeing/talking to other women because I really like him and he said to me he doesn't have time for any of that anyway, so I guess I was reassured. A couple days later I went to see him and we ended up having sex, most of the time we have met up it has ended up like that and I did bring it up that it was bothering me because I wanted to go out and do things and not feel like I was doing a 'fwb' thing. He reassured me and promised me we would have days out - that still hasn't happened. I guess I go to his place because that's the only way I get to see him. He always says he's busy with work so I guess I believed that. We text everyday, but this week he has been acting really weird. Messaging at the end of the day saying 'sorry I've been busy', then went on to ignore me for 2 whole days whilst still posting pics of him at the zoo and a fancy meal which raised my suspicions because he took a day off from work to do this and it looked like a date to me. I messaged him the next day (yesterday) and then he replied saying that we need to speak (obviously can't be good right?) I got no response so late night yesterday I messaged again asking him to ring me so I can understand what he needs to speak to me about. It's been a whole day now and he's still not speaking, yet he's liking pictures on insta, watching my stories on SC. Do you think I should ring him? Shall I just leave it? Why is he not responding to my messages? Is he afraid? I just don't understand. He's delaying this probably not to ruin his day but he's really affecting me by delaying this "talk". I don't understand what he wants, did my phone call trigger him into thinking he actually doesn't want to commit? Please advise me, I feel really hopeless and broken, I feel like I've been lied to and maybe even used for sex and company, I feel like I've been given false hope and I've been led on.
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