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emotionalBlueberry2799
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Arranged marriage troubles
Relationship Stress / by emotionalBlueberry2799
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 March 14th, 2022
...See more Hi, I've been married for a month and ours was an arranged marriage.. I thought he looked good and spoke well and agreed to this wedding.. We had issues even before the wedding over me taking care of all the wedding expenses. He said he'll pay for honeymoon and the new car I've had an eye on.. So I agreed.. But now he says he has no money, I feel cheated.. He does not even ask me if I need any money for daily expenses, he well knows I spent all I had on the wedding. I work double shifts and support myself. It brings up hatred in me. I find that I don't like anything he does and get annoyed by even simple things. He's not an open person, but expects me to lift up the relationship by making conversation everytime. More than that, he has not been in a relationship like ever. Don't know if it's because of that, he is so bad in bed, he had zero reaction when we made out the first time, he is unable to get any erection lasting longer than 2 minutes.. This adds to the frustration I feel.. I have no attraction to him now and my only hope is a platonic relationship to save this marriage before its even began.. But I don't know if I'll ever get happiness out if it. I don't know what else to do.. It's like a weight on my chest which just won't lift.. Any advice on what I should do?
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